“I hate the [expletive] Eagles,” declares Jeff Bridges as the stoner-turned-detective hero of The Big Lebowski, the classic Coen brothers film study of Los Angeles.

But even if you aren’t a fan of the bestselling band of the ’70s, you’ve gotta give the Eagles this: Their most famous song was so dead-on that it now explains our state’s economic, geographic, and demographic realities.

You’re a Hotel, California.

As Californians pick up the pieces from the Great Recession, the trend is clear. The parts of our state’s regional economies that involve Californians serving other Californians—construction, real estate, government—have been hit hard. But the economic sectors that involve Californians serving people from elsewhere—trade, technology, and export-oriented pieces of media, entertainment, agriculture, education, and health—are mostly growing. So it’s more important than ever for us put on a hospitable face for the world.

Friendliness to visitors is all the more crucial since we are producing fewer new California residents (because of big declines in California’s birth rate and in immigration) and since some of our fundamentals—relatively high taxes, heavy regulation, and decaying infrastructure—are unattractive. Any hotelier knows that when you’re overpriced and a little ragged around the edges, like, say, the Hotel Del Coronado, you must make up for it with good hospitality.

Especially when it comes to travel and tourism. The amount spent by visitors to California can seem small—it’s a little more than $100 billion, equal to the size of the state’s general fund, which is less than 10 percent of the economy—but its impact is outsized.

While famous attractions like Disneyland and the Golden Gate Bridge are important pieces of their local economies, tourism packs an even bigger economic punch in smaller inland communities with undiversified economies, where one or two steady attractions can be a lifeline. A report from Dean Runyon Associates finds that Sierra counties like Mariposa (Yosemite Valley) and Mono (Mammoth Lakes) get more than half of their local taxes via tourism.

Tourism is California’s Great Unifier, connecting all our diverse regional economies and equalizing the disparities between the places we live. Which is why we all must understand the first rule of living in the Hotel California: bringing the state together starts not with how we treat one another but with how we treat our guests. Each and every one of us must do a better job of being hospitable to those who visit Hotel California, both for business and pleasure.

From this perspective, state officials made a big mistake by letting California’s national parks close during the government shutdown instead of finding the money to keep places like Yosemite open. And it’s one more reason that the new law to grant drivers’ licenses to undocumented immigrants makes sense: It sends a welcoming message to the world.

If we want visitors, we also need a greater sense of urgency about expanding our seaports and airports. The white-elephant airports in Fresno and Ontario must be revived, and San Diego needs to grow up and build itself a real international airport. Our best minds must be up to the task of figuring out how to end the endless weather delays at SFO. For infrastructure, we must prioritize projects at the ports of Long Beach and Los Angeles and other places that support global trade; the fact that Texas has surpassed us in exports should be considered a statewide embarrassment.

To make us better hosts to outsiders arriving in the state, our schools should require children to gain fluency in multiple languages—Spanish and at least one Asian language, plus whatever language it is they speak in the United Kingdom (the number-one source of visitors to California) and Australia (which is number three). State bureaucracies should offer concierge service to people who come to California to start businesses, and each of our municipal governments should offer their residents free, public courses in their particular civic history, so more of us can serve as impromptu tour guides when out-of-town visitors stop us on the streets.

In the meantime, let’s create an hour-long version of the introductory class for students at Cal Poly Pomona’s world-class Collins College of Hospitality Management, and make it into an online class open to all Californians.

In a conversation with Margie Ferree Jones, a professor at Collins, I learned there are at least three lessons you hear in hospitality class that might apply to us Californians.

  1. Seize the moment. In the hospitality business you’re selling perishable products, like that night’s hotel room and restaurant dinner, so don’t wait to engage your customers.
  2. Work with intangibility. You’re not selling an object that someone can take home—you’re helping people create great experiences and memories.
  3. Make human connections in the service of repeat guests. Learn and remember people’s names, and what they like. “If I’m a Starwood or Hilton frequent guest, and if I order an extra robe or a particular wine when I’m in Texas, they will know that and anticipate those requests when I come to Pasadena,” says Ferree Jones.

We’d all be better at our jobs if we learned those lessons. And the relationships we build with visitors via hospitality can make a lasting impact. The members of the Eagles, for example, weren’t from California, but they learned about the state, and ultimately fell in love with it, through their lodgings.

“We were enamored with hotels,” Don Henley told the director-screenwriter Cameron Crowe in 2003. “Hotels were a big part of our lives. The Beverly Hills Hotel had become something of a focal point, literally and symbolically.” Henley and Glenn Frey even went and saw Neil Simon’s California Suite, a play and later a movie, set in that famously pink hotel. As Henley told Crowe, “We saw it as our homework and research.”

Californians can do their hospitality homework, too. The next time you find yourself with a free moment, find a mirror and practice your smile. Also try out a few key phrases to use with visitors.

Such as: “What else can we do to make your stay in California more comfortable?”

And: “We’d be happy to help you check out anytime you like, but we hope you never leave.”

Cross-posted at. Zocalo Public Square.